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[quote=Anonymous]Weight loss.  It's so cliche, but my husband miraculously dropped the extra 30 pounds he packed on during my pregnancies (oddly he gained more than me and didn't try to take any of it off).  I joked with my best friend that he was having an affair.  The joke was on me, though, because he was having an affair.  Since the affair ended, he packed the weight right back on.  I guess that's a sign he's being faithful, but it really grates on me that he was in shape for the OW and I don't count.  Not to mention the health impacts (his family has a history of diabetes and his diabetic dad has been warning him about needing lifestyle changes for years).  Funny thing is that I didn't really care about the extra weight except for health issues until I realized he was willing to try to look sharp for someone else.

He also became mean to me.  Everything was all of a sudden my fault.

Finally, he worked all of the time, including overnight.  I was pretty naive and actually felt very bad about his long hours.  Of course, now I know he was using that time to woo and sleep with a coworker.  [/quote]

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