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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm in this same bad place, except it's DW who feels that way.  We never had fireworks, but the sex has gotten to near-non-existent (early June was the last time).  DW was always on the "curvy" side and now, post-baby, has really never gotten off the pregnancy weight.  I don't actually mind but she was already shy and self-conscious and now is super self-conscious to the point of not really wanting to have sex.  DW wasn't as experienced or "skilled" but that never bothered me - mostly vanilla missionary is fine - but I am unhappy that my attempts to initiate are met more with sex-negativity than just declining - that smacks of avoidance.  [/quote]

This sounds familiar. On top of the stuff you describe, the room kept getting darker and darker when we had sex. There kept being more rules about when we could do it. Her shirt came off less and less. She needed a 20 minute massage before we could get on to sexier kinds of foreplay. Once we got going, she would generally do what I suggested, but took less and less initiative. Ugh. [/quote]

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