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[quote=Anonymous]I've been friends with him and his family for about 10 years now. Over the last couple months I've been thinking that he's flirting with me but didn't say anything to our group of friends because I didn't want to put anything in anyone's head. I couldn't keep my mouth shut anymore though after we all went out and he got drunk. He told me "there's no one else I would rather be talking to" and "you are mind blowing". I didn't say anything until he text me after I ran into him at the store and I was stand offish. He started off his message by saying he knew why I was mad at him. (I thought great he's going to apologize!) but come to figure, he had came to the conclusion that I wanted him to leave his wife. He even flat out told me he would date me.

I went off on him. Told him how inappropriate he was being and that he needs to focus on his family. He has 4 children yet he attempts to contact me every night and even tells me about the issues him and his wife are having. After I was done telling him he should work on his marriage, he apologized and begged for us to still be friends and for me to still hang around our initial group of friends. I agreed but it doesn't feel right. Am I doing something wrong by still hanging out in a group setting with him? He still texts me almost every night I guess as a "friend" but I just ignore it because I know he wants more. I don't want to stop hanging around my friends just because he hangs around them too. And I also don't want to say anything to his wife because I don't want his family to suffer just because he's an idiot. But then again I don't know why I'm protecting him for his own consequences. Please help. [/quote]

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