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[quote=Anonymous]My mother passed away about 9 months ago. She (unbeknownst to me) had allegedly borrowed money from her boyfriend.
About 20 minutes after her funeral, I got a call from this idiot on my mother's phone.  He mentioned that he had some personal items and electronics that he left in my mother's home. I told him to make me a list and that we would get all of his stuff and make sure he recieved them.  He then mentioned that he had loaned my mother money, though he never specified the amount.  I told him that he'd have to get together with his attorney and make a claim against her estate, as it had gone into probate. My mother left no will and had very little money to her name...not even enough to cover her funeral. My sister and I covered it.  If he had actual receipts and contracts proving it (and had my mother actually left any assets), we would have made sure that he recieved the money.  I'm just not going to give this guy money out of my own pocket.
He said that he'd rather just deal with me directly.  I told him that I would never, ever do that and that he was welcome to address any concerns with his attorney.  This ape will not leave me alone.  At least 2-3 times per month I get a phone call bugging me about the money that he loaned her. I continuously tell him to leave me alone.  I've blocked his number, but he just calls me from new numbers.  He emails me too.
I cannot change my phone number or email address, as they are associated with my business.  I found out that he has begun calling my 90 year old grandmother, who is in agony over losing her child.
I'm honestly about to lose my shit.  What the hell do I do?  Should I have an attorney pen and send out a cease and desist letter? [/quote]

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