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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree that this shouldn't come as a surprise to anyone, but most of the recent posters have been baffled at their spouse's unwillingness to even try. No, no one should expect thrills and chills five times a week after 16 years, but if your routine has boiled down to once a week, or worse, once a month, it's not asking too much that that one episode of duty sex not feel like just another chore.

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Jeez though, think about it. So the husband wants to schedule sex and is imagining some porno romp in his head no doubt. Wednesday at 12:30 rolls around and the husband looks to the wife. How sexy is she really going to feel in the middle of the day with no external stimulation? I could laugh just thinking about this. What kind of dolt really thinks this is going to work???

I will say it again. You need to woo your wife. You need to romance her. You need to treat her like you did when your first met. That is the only way this will work the way you want it to, where she is just as into it as you. Why do you men think women usually get aroused by hotel sex? Hotel = new environment = novelty = excitement = romance. Bingo. Now I understand why you might not want to go to that level of effort after 16 years. But don't cry that you're being neglected sexually because of it. You KNOW what to do. You just don't want to do it. You want your cake (hot, spontaneous sex) and you want to eat it too (no added effort put in).

And NO I am not talking about chores! That is not sexy.[/quote]

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