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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. DH had an affair, says it's over, says he wants to repair things. I asked for him to leave (he is living at his parents) because I thought we needed some space to figure things out. Right now, we are both saying we want to work towards him moving back in. There's the affair to work through but also a bunch of other stuff including mental health, substance abuse, and professional. We're going to therapy individually and together. I think we are both honest in our intentions. At the same time, some of the things to work through aren't instant fixes and I think realistically this is a 3-6 month separation. I guess I just want to make sure I don't make stupid mistakes in navigating this. We are not seeing other people (I know that's a leap of faith for me to believe him), yet how much time and what kind of time (and physical relationship) we have together seems like a moving, fraught target.[/quote]
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