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[quote=Anonymous]I did it. We did a controlled separation which is basically a contracted agreement answering questions such as will you date each other or others, money arrangements, how often will you see each other. If you google controlled separation you can find sample contracts.

I fell back in love. We reconciled and moved back in together. For two months things were great. Then the old patterns started. We stuck it out for almost three more years. That's how long it took me to accept that I can't be married to him.

Take your time if you need it OP.  I had to know I tried everything. Maybe it will work for you, all dependant on the issues I guess.

You don't know until you know,  but if it's worth anything I would suggest just working towards divorcing now.

There's a book by Mira Kirshenbaum called "too good to leave,  too bad to stay" it's a step by step guide that you might find helpful. It gives accounts of people who stayed or left and how they felt tied directly to all sorts of individual issues.
https://www.amazon.com/Good-Leave-Stay-Step-Step-ebook/dp/B002JPGQ34
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