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[quote=Anonymous]Looking for some advice ... I'm 40, with 8, 4 and 2 year old sons. I don't feel like our family is complete, but that *may* be because I don't have a daughter. Four has always been my "max," so I'd definitely be done having children after my fourth, no matter the gender. I just worry I am too old. My husband is 44. We could financially do it...but we would have to work for 25 more years (which we're planning to do any way).

I just need some help working out my thoughts on the matter. Will I forever regret it if I don't have a fourth child or will I feel ready to move on from the parental role with children in my house in my late 50's? Also, I know adding another child takes away from my existing children but I also know adding one adds one more to love. But maybe this boat has left the dock and I really am pushing it age-wise (for a healthy pregnancy/child although my doctor did not seem to be concerned)? I appreciate any thoughts on the matter, especially if you had to make the same decision. [/quote]

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