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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I have been married five years and have two young kids. Before kids, we had sex at least once a day. Now, we've had sex twice in the last year. I always tell him I'd like to be more intimate. I was having trouble initiating due to body image (not fat, but things have changed since kids....still a size six). I initiated twice last weekend and DH couldn't perform (blamed it on the wine he had). Was successful the next day, but took forever to get him to that place. I've pranced around naked in front of him, tried on sexy underwear, etc....nothing seems to interest him. I know he isn't gay and don't think he's cheating (when he does perform it's very short). How can I get our sex life back on track? He honestly doesn't care about being intimate unless we're trying for a child and I think it's hurting our relationship.[/quote]

I am the OP from the similar post on this page (approaching one year without sex with DH). I suspect that if I was pushing mine more I would probably end up with same result as you (put in front of the fact that he is not able to perform). I think I'v been reluctant to put him in that position as he is very proud and would be hurt.. But time for a change.. I am dragging him to doc + therapy in the coming month.. Will report back[/quote]

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