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[quote=Anonymous]I am 35, 2 kids under 4 year old, busy life, we both work FT in demanding jobs. We used to laugh a little bit about our lack of sex life since we had kids but I am not laughing anymore. I don't understand why my DH is so uninterested ... Honestly I think I look ok, 5'5, 110 pounds, curves at the right places, i don't look much different post babies (of course I look older but I don't have wrinkles or grey hairs yet) I know from experience and how other men look at me that I am attractive, but it is as if my DH only sees a friend..

I know he used to find me pretty, I was his dream girl in grad school, we still have great intellectual discussions, but he seems to have zero libido. I was sitting on the couch five minutes ago next to him, half naked, gently tanned after a summer at the beach, my boobs round and out, my bare legs next to him. I know I looked good tonight from the appreciative looks I got all day long. And nothing, not even a hand on my knee.. I feel so transparent and lonely ..

I don't even dare touching him myself. It is weird, as if I would be trespassing. There is now a wall and I feel so shy. I have been rebuked too often. And whenever I try to discuss the topic he says I am not making enough efforts to arouse him. But I don't even see how. I am not a prude, but I am not going to start a lap dance to arouse someone who doesn't even start with the beginning of a twinkle in his eyes.

I think he is putting the blame on me to avoid facing th exact that he has no desire for me.. Any DH or DW that can relate and help me understand? [/quote]

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