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[quote=Anonymous]When I started dating my now husband he had a child and I was childfree (married, have a toddler together now). My advice -- if/when your kids and GF meet, don't push for the relationship YOU want them to have, let them decide and define it for themselves. My SD and I have always gotten along, but I haven't had a 'mothering' relationship with her -- she's got a very involved mom -- she didn't need or want me in that role, nor did I want to be in that role, but I got the sense that my H wanted me to be more mom-like (whatever that means). Also, if you don't want anymore kids, make sure she knows that. [/quote]
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