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[quote=Anonymous]So here is a spin off. There is a mom at our kid's school, which is now high school, but this went through middle school, who has called several parents accusing their children of bullying and being mean to her daughter. One time it was texting late at night about some slight.  Accusations of her kid being left out and how her dd is the nicest, most sensitive girl around were conveyed.  My DD and I had no idea at this point about her child "sobbing whole night." Accusations were false, it was a simple miscommunication about an afternoon activity. I am not involved in every detail of my teen DD's social life. I found out later that this same mom called other parents and had issues with other parents in regards to her child and made similar accusations not just at school but at sports activities. It was conveyed to me that this girl goes around school declaring her hate for my DD, other kids and even her mom. Mom would call me and other parents and pile up evil deeds by our children that other parents and I never heard about. My DD was stunned to hear these accusations and thought the other girl was being hurtful and cutting her off. Girls made up a few weeks later and all was good, but are not as great friends. The message I tried to convey was to leave the girls to sort this out, my DD said that she never saw it as a big deal since the behavior of this girl was typical, sometimes she is nice some times she ignores people.  What do you do if somebody calls you and accuses your child of bad behavior? I told her that I will talk to my child and find out what is happening but she was angry and accusing me of not believing her and taking her word at face value, hence accepting that her child is right and mine is wrong. The other parents and I in our group have never had an issue with anybody else or between us ever. This is the only instance. WWYD?[/quote]

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