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[quote=ThatBetch]Scheduling gets crazy. Do yourself a favor and create some kind of joint calendar system so everyone can see what's coming up. This might've been an innocent mistake (i.e. he forgot), but it's still pretty jerkish for him to accuse you of never saying it at all and then "not understand" why that's frustrating to you. My ex used to "forget" things all the time. I started writing them down, mostly just because he was making me feel crazy. Turns out I'm not crazy. Fancy that! My advice would be to solve the underlying problems and eliminate the dynamic wherein you're telling him things and he can "forget them". If you love him like you say you do, it's probably not worth documenting things just to prove your point. Cue "gaslighting" posters in 3...2...[/quote]
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