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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think you need to be dramatic about it, "goodbye forever" thing seems a big much. Aren't you going to have to see her at work?

And be honest, what was your role in this? You seem a little coy, like you have to think about if you mentioned a kids activity.
Don't you wear a wedding band?[/quote]

We don't work together anymore.

Honestly I cannot be sure about the kid events, but I've been replaying all the events so much in my head to see if I ever lead her on, which I'd be upset with myself about, but memories are getting fuzzier each time I replay them in my head so I have lost some certitude. I guess I'm just angry and sad, angry that she's now ruined the friendship and sad because I've lost someone who I felt close to (as a friend).[/quote]

Dude, you had a few lunches together. What's with all the emotion about it? You obviously we're developing feelings for her too, but don't want to admit it to yourself. It's like you're playing dumb, but with yourself.

No way she "forgot" you were married. Unless you don't wear a ring and were steadfast in avoiding any conversation about your wife and kids. But if she was interested in you, your marital status is one of the first things she would have registered.

Now that you know she was interested in dating you, you need to let go of the fantasy of this lost "friendship"... because that's not what it was. Gimme a break. Go tell your wife that you're emotionally vulnerable due to this friendship lost. See how she reacts.

Stop being a yodel-head.[/quote]

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