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[quote=ThatBetch]If there's 'weirdness' as a result of cheating, the person responsible should own it. I don't think wearing a scarlet "A" is mandatory, but if his mom is pointing out that your behavior is... whatever (cooler, anxious, etc.), he should explain why (not you). Asking you to put on a happy face and not say anything is a(nother) jerk move. Forcing you to "out" him makes you look like the bad guy, which is also a jerk move. Refusing to own his actions is a red flag. Again, I'm not saying he needs to make a public declaration of shame and regret, but if/when the fallout from his actions becomes noticeable to others, he needs to take responsibility for it. He made the mess. And you're absolutely right: acknowledging the mess is the first step toward cleaning it up. Attempting to sweep it under the rug =/= cleaning. [/quote]
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