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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Yes, I hope he will feel ashamed. I hope I can behave more honestly with my MIL. Not that we need to talk about the events themselves, but that she can know why I have pulled back. Maybe she can offer support. If I'm being honest, I think I also want some kind of recognition for staying with him through this. [b]I keep thinking how the first step in AA is to go tell people. [/b]When you say it out loud it's powerful. DH hasn't done that.[/quote] No, that is not the first step. We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that our lives had become unmanageable. Telling people and making amends is way down that 12 step list.[/quote]
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