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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It was in the context of showing love.[b] I already felt a little unappreciated from helping so much with the baby, household, and cooking and started feeling resentment. [/b]So my continued gestures to be a good husband for doing all the cooking and a lot of chores was one way I was trying to show love. Of course I cut off communications with the ex and focused all my attention on the wife. But those were smaller gestures compared to the amount of damage I caused. This he suggested some grand gestures and to initiate more date nights.

But I could really use some genuine help and ideas for how to demonstrate that I am still in life with DW. [/quote]

The first thing you can do is grow up. Then after she sees that you act like a grow up for a year or so, she will believe you and not be resentful.

sorry dude, you did the crime do the time. It does not just magically go away because you want it to.

Stay in therapy to find out why you are so needy.

Meet her for lunch once a week, plan a date once a month (plan it, hire the babysitter, make it at least a 1/2 a day), go on a vacation that you plan with the child, go on an overnight that you plan and you plan the babysitter.

BTW, these are not grand gestures, these are normal things a couple does when they love each other. [/quote]

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