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[quote=Anonymous]You sound impossibly selfish. Your therapist sounds like a nitwit. Guess what you have to do? You have to do all the things you've been doing and more, indefinitely, thanklessly. Do everything you can, forever, even if she doesn't show appreciation. You have to do it without resentment. That's what someone who loves her and is worthy of her would do. You broke her trust, and you betrayed her and let her down at the worst, most vulnerable time--when your baby and wife needed you. Take your resentment and feeling unappreciated, and multiply it times a billion, and that, along with hurt and destroyed and betrayed, is how she feels. If it takes her five years to feel you've redeemed yourself, so be it. That's the only way you can demonstrate your love and commitment. And you shouldn't put conditions or deadlines on your behavior and how she needs to feel, either. [/quote]
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