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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do it the DCUM way, [b]hold him back a year so he can possibly catch up[/b]!

Why not find an sport he likes?  [/quote]
? Terrible idea.  No wonder these kids can't deal with disappointments or any hardships.  Parents mowing down every obstacle in their path.

My DS is going into MS.  He is about average to below average, maybe 30%ile?  Has been since ES.  He is also not very athletic, and loves all things electronics.

We have had many conversations about being on the shorter side for a boy.  We try to find things he's good at, and tell him that most people have something about them that they have to overcome. We emphasize working hard, trying and not giving up over all else.  It's kind of like being smart but being lazy. That won't get you anywhere in life.  We tell him not to let his height get in the way of living his life.

We find role models who are are on the shorter side, like that basketball player who was, I think like 5'8" or something.  My DS likes basketball, so we tell him to use his smallness to his advantage.  He can move faster, get down easier.  He's not the best shooter, so we tell him to practice shooting.  He may not be able to make too many baskets while playing, but he can make foul shots.

We also make sure he does something athletic to build his muscles, so he does swimming.  Find any sport your DS might enjoy: fencing, tennis, swimming?  Even if he isn't athletic, I think kids should do something to help build their muscles.  My DS would sit in front of a computer all day if I let him.

We know a 14 yr old who is the same size as my 11 yr old.  He is quite popular because he's got a terrific personality and is really such a great person.[/quote]

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