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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A OP here. I meant to add this.... And I'm NOT making excuses for him or anyone like him,.. But 21 year old guys are idiots. Still immature, still selfish, still scared. I can see how he immaturity would pave way to allowing that distance to build and build... Then all of a sudden that's the 'norm'. He has had 2 serious girlfriends before me, wondering if they were as concerned as me. [/quote] So I guess you're the kind of woman who seeks to make excuses for this behavior. Two things for you to ponder as you try to dismiss this man's moral blindspot. First, presumably the child's mother was also young, immature, selfish, scared. Yet somehow she managed to step up. Second, BF is no longer 21. What's his excuse for being a deadbeat father now?[/quote]
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