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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm in your nanny's spot. I would appreciate a small comment like, "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to hurt your feelings the other day." Don't go overboard, and don't write a note - that's too much. But something small would be nice. She will probably blow it off (I would), but deep down it would mean a lot to me. [/quote] I dealt with infertility for years - didn't expect everyone else in the world not to keep going on with having kids and talking about it. That's 'normal.' And you didn't know her situation. I honestly did feel 'sad' when people did talk about being pregnant or dealing with pregnancy etc - but it's not about the other person being "insensitive" (ie. it's not really about "you" as the third party) vs. dealing with your own situation. I'd instead maybe either do a note or quick talk that is more of the tone of being sorry about her situation and that you are "there" for her as a friend vs. your "behavior."[/quote]
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