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[quote=Anonymous]Found out this evening my nanny and her husband  cannot have children. This was after me blabbing to her last week about both my sisters being pregnant at the same time, and me "complaining" about not being able to join them. I kind of consider her a third little sister, so I teasingly said she  needs to watch out because she'll be next.

I honestly didn't know, and I feel like such a jerk.

Part of me wants to write her a little note, but I have no idea what to put in it.

She's been with us 8 years and she and her husband have become part of our village. I can't imagine how hard this must be for them. It was accidental, but I know what I said must have caused her pain.

I'm just not sure what to do. I apologized  because I didn't know. She said not to worry because she hadn't told me. It was just very awkward when she left. I won't see her again until Monday. Would a note make it worse?

I haven't dealt with infertility so I really don't know if it would be better just to let it go , or  apologize again.[/quote]

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