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Reply to "Trying and failing to force myself to want sex with husband "
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[quote=Anonymous]I know you are worried that if you talk about all of this with him, he will get depressed. You could But truly, the only way to get through this is to express the anger and resentment you have been holding inside for years. If he's capable of having a frank, deep discussion then it's time to have one. Does he understand the powerful impact his denial of all intimacy had on you? It might help crumble that wall a bit, or it might be to little, too late. Ultimately he may have to accept that sex is off the table, just as it was for you when he was ill. Such a difficult situation. If he never initiated again, how would you feel? Relieved? Disappointed? Do you think it would benefit you to work through your negative feelings about intimacy and regain your desire to have sex? Or are you truly okay letting go of that aspect of your relationship?[/quote]
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