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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^OP here. I initially stayed because I wouldn't walk out on a sick person, I was still in love, and I still hoped he'd get better and want me again, which he eventually did. My trust and optimism was shot by then.

We can't afford to divorce and have two households, and we're coparenting very well. No reason to make my child miserable.

We don't argue much and we do keep a fun and supportive atmosphere.

After being courted and pursued by my husband, agreeing to marry, getting excited about it, falling deeply in love, and then getting dropped on my head by him, I am not capable of falling for someone again. [b]If he died tomorrow (I'd be sad- he's a good guy I care about) I would never marry or even cohabitate again.[/b]

It's such a weird situation to be in. I loved sex. More than he did. He took that away and now he wants to have sex with the body he once rejected.

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Most widow/ers say that and yet they fall in love and marry again.

If you won't leave maybe ask for an open marriage.[/quote]

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