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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband is incapable of apologizing or understanding why someone is upset with him. If he drops the ball or messes up or forgets something, there is almost nothing I can do. He won't talk about, he'll become passive aggressive and infuriate me and nothing ever changes or gets better.

Try individual and couples counseling to try to get back on track. Dealing with a PA spouse is awful, and gets handed down from parent to kid to kid so beware.

I mention this angle because you are mentioned bad conflict resolution issues.[/quote]

People make mistakes, it does not need to be discussed, and an apology should not be needed. What is there to understand, except that people are human, they make mistakes and sometimes drop the ball.

You want to discuss every mistake and you need an apology?

:? [/quote]

NP,  an acknowledge is what I expect.   I am in this boat as PP.  Really make things worse when spouse doesn't say anything about his mistakes.  Say something...oh my fault,  I hear ya, ops, sorry.[/quote]

No. People do not have to say my fault. They know it is their fault, you know it is their fault. So what!

Hey kids you are 5 minutes late to practice, my fault.
Forms are not in on time, my fault.
I got the wrong 3 ring binder, my fault.
The hall light still does not have a bulb, my fault.
I forgot to get coffee, my fault

NO! Guess what, it will not kill you to be 5 minutes late, the forms will eventually  get there, and 1.5 inch ring instead of 1 inch is just something you will have to live with. Also, turn on the bathroom light and drink tea. Geez. You sound miserable to live with.

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