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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I am like this.  I feel my DH has some issues, including not listening when I mention things that bother me.  If I have to say it 2 times, I will explode.  Seriously.  I shouldn't have to say it 3 times.

I agree with PP that different personalities are at play here.  I feel like you are more like my DH, and I severely regret marrying someone so sensitive.  I need to be angry sometimes.  I just need to get upset, tell you, and I am good.  If you act like you hear me, I'm really good.  This whole WTF attitude is sending me straight to divorce with my DH, because I have to shut down everything about myself that's been a normal reaction my whole life.

Such as, we don't let the child eat milk products that sat out all night.  We just don't.  Also, it's good to try to feed our child.  That's a bonus.[/quote]

personality differences is an easy excuse not to try to communicate or work things out with another individual. In this case, your wife or spouse. If either of you cared you'd get help to learn how to effectively communicate and improve your relationship, rather than give up.

Your husband likely grew up in a household where "anger" or "emotion" of any sort was a weakness and prohibited. But it is natural and he needs to now learn healthy ways of expressing anger and responding to other people's anger. He never saw this growing up, get help.[/quote]

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