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[quote=Anonymous]1. So when they say they are coming next time tell them that that visit won't work  or you only have  x amount of time.  The key is you actually have to be gone o if they just show up you won't be there so you. DH and the kids just ake a short weekend trip  out of town.

2. Your 5 year old might be tired of them, but he's also picking up on your attitude and DH's attitude with  them and thinks it's okay for him to be rude. It's really not and I hope you are checking his behavior instead of excusing it.

3. It seems you are a slightly controlling, uber healthy newer mom type. Who cares if all the want to eat is sandwiches and soda? They've made it to  60 something  they don't need your input in what to eat.   As for activities again  they know how they want to spend their time relax. I think part of the problem is you think you need to entertain them, or tell them how to play with your kids. If you are planning on doing something you think they might like, mention it once and then drop it. Feel free to go on about your business and not have to be there to micromanage play time.

4. Your dad griping about your house and you mom worrying about food is just them showing they care about you they want you to have the best so stop taking it as an insult.   Learn to nod, smile, some neutral phrases,  and redirect. Offer them a sandwich maybe.
Don't argue. Ignore.

5. For the gifts and toys that isn't going to stop . SO keep using goodwill. I believe they do pick ups. Or if you can swng it   find a large laundry basket or stoarge bin from Wallmart and fill it. Every month donate it to a different shelter in your area This is something I do with my kids and they love to find toys and books to give to kids who don't have them.  You can  advertise on CL or Freecycle too for  preschools or homeschoolers they are always looking for books and clothes.
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