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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]we have some underlying issues around poor listening, poor communication and then poor conflict resolution. [b]Little things get ignored, not fixed, never solved, then become bigger aggravations, and then become arguments[/b], at which time DH attacks me personally for arguing or bringing up things that need to be done. Nothing get resolved.

About every few months it gets really bad and DH explodes into one of his victim temper tantrums and says he "doesn't want the kids around a house like this and he doesn't want to live like this".  I ask him if he's threatening me and he riddles back, "I'm not threatening you, I'm telling you a fact."

Why would someone argue like this?  Anyone else's spouse like this?

I'm getting sick of it and so much more. The respect is just gone, on both sides. Now I'm supposed to live in fear of my spouse just giving up on everything or taking some cop out.  Am I supposed to roll over on any basic expectations from a marriage or father of my children?[/quote]

Like what?

Are you nagging and starting fights?

When a fight starts do you just go on and on and on, or can you stop talking and walk away until things calm down?[/quote]

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