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[quote=Anonymous]Oh okay, just curious. Well, I know it's going to be hard but I just wouldn't go out of my way to impress or even be around any family that didn't open up to me by the time an engagement was even on the table. If my in-laws were cold, I'd see them only when necessary, I'd be polite, offer to help at appropriate gatherings but that is all they'd get from me. The race aspect complicates it because people can be prejudiced or racist and not even know it, your fiancé will probably never tell you because he may not even realize it about his own family.

If your family is more warm and accepting of your fiancé, then they'll be who y'all will gravitate to throughout your relationship and those bonds will only strengthen over time, especially if/when you two have children.

Don't sweat it Op, just keep being you but don't stress yourself out trying to figure out why they're so stiff. Enjoy your fiancé and continue to nurture relationships with your own family and circle of friends.[/quote]

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