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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think that any of you are really in a position to judge whether or not a person has "tried hard enough" to save their marriage. For one thing, unless TWO people are trying, it really doesn't matter. For another, there are a lot of really shitty ways that spouses can treat each other that don't rise to actual abuse (physical, emotional, sexual, whatever).

Maybe the PP above could've "tried harder" to get her husband to communicate, but why should she have to beg her husband to spend time with her and not at bars with his friends? It sounds like HE'S not suited to marriage. She sounds like she is. At some point, it sounds like the PP decided that she didn't deserve the kind of relationship she had, and I don't understand why you think it's your business to say she didn't try hard enough.[/quote]

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OP, you sound insecure to me. Secure people don't need to run around preaching about how their life choices are the only right choices. The fact that you created a whole post about it makes me think you're not as happy as you'd like us to believe you are. It's one thing to say 'hey, if you're on the brink of divorce - know that sometimes counseling can work and bring back a marriage from the edge'. It's another thing to create a whole thread humble bragging about how you're superior to the rest of DCUMers who have ever struggled in their marriage. [/quote]

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