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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=CallMeMaybe]My Ex was a terrible communicator, was never ever there for me in stressful times (a meeting in Boston was more important than being with me during a DC surgery), he went out all the time while I stayed home with our 2 year old daughter and worked full time.  He slowly became the dirtbag that never grew up. Being a parent means being there.

I slowly hated living a lie and moved out. Big props to be. My freedom is everything to me.

Meanwhile after 6 months of separation he found a much younger woman and now they are engaged. And I'm watching history repeat itself. He can use his control tactics on her. [/quote]

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This is exactly what I am talking about.  Did you try to get him to communicate better? Did you tell him how much you needed him during those times? Or did you just let it fester and let the anger grow?  This seems to have been the perfect case where learning to connect could have saved the marriage.  You married him for a reason, you loved him at one time. [b]You gave it all up without trying to save it.[/b]  Now you have a daughter without a full time dad.  [/quote]

Who the DGF are you to say this to someone??[/quote]

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