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[quote=Anonymous]I didnt want to change my name at first (got married at 34). Then I decided to just change it legally but still use my maiden name as my professional name. That got challenging (specifically when going on client visits where I had to show my ID/get a visitor badge to enter, and my visitor badge had a different last name on it than the client knew), then I got pregnant and I decided just to change it before the kid came as I envisioned more confusion to come. In retrospect, it was a silly thing for me to get to worked up about/fight so much, because a different name on my drivers license doesnt make me a different person. My values and morals and beliefs and personality are all the same.[/quote]
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