Reply to I'm Just Back From A Date & I Feel Horrible.

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "I'm Just Back From A Date & I Feel Horrible."

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]My coworker & bff set me up with a friend of hers. She talked him up really well and when I saw his pictures I thought he was very attractive. Think famous model levels of attraction. I  asked her about him if he was single etc and if he'd like a date. So she set us up. We talked on the phone and texted before meeting. In person he looked a little different from the pictures. He was chunkier. Kind of a dad bod but a little more chunk.  He was also wearing glasses. Nothing against  glasses in general but these were big and thick. He said his contacts were bothering him so he  had to wear the glasses.   I was also later bothered by his clothes he was wearing a superman  t-shirt under  his button down I only found that out because he gave me his other shirt because I was cold. It's  petty, but we're both 32  and graphic tees  seem immature to me. As horrible as it sounds I lost some of my attraction to him at first sight, but he was a really great date. A gentleman, shy, and sweet and funny.
I thought I should give him another chance, so we went out 3 more times including tonight. I still wasn't feeling it tonight. He  asked me about a  5th date   and I told him I thought we'd better as friends. I wasn't feeling the chemistry  with him  . The chemistry thing was true I didn't enjoy kissing him. I was being honest about being his friend too, he's a  really nice guy I just don't feel it with him.
I'm feeling bad though because i could tell he was clearly hurt when I told him even though he tried to play it off like  it wasn't a big deal.

I'm also thinking that maybe I'm an idiot because I'm not getting any younger and if I want to get married I need to be a little bit more open. I did give us a chance. I still feel bad.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics