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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1) You're overreacting.  Sex is different for men than it is for women.

2) [u]Don't ask questions when you don't want to hear the answers.[/u]

3) Don't get all nitpicky about the first couple of months of your relationship, when you were just getting to know each other. [/quote]

+1 though I don't necessarily agree sex is different for men than women because I know plenty of women that keep a FWB relationship going until they know the new guy they are dating is someone they want to be exclusive with AND feels the same about her. So maybe I'm too analytical but I think there is a difference between meeting someone you have instant chemistry with but while you are continuing to date other people you meet someone new that on date 1 or 2 you sleep with them KNOWING you really want things to pan out with instant chemistry person, versus you were already sleeping with someone be it a FWB or someone you were dating but not exclusive and then meet instant chemistry person.

Honestly though I wouldn't even ask the question because I wouldn't want to know the answer. If it's anything other than the same decision, I.e. We both had FWB or an ex we were hooking up with that we continued until it seemed obvious we were going to be exclusive, or neither of us was having sex with someone else when we met and waited for our relationship to progress, or we were both had an ex or FWB but after date 1 with each other, broke it off) someone is going to feel hurt.  I agree with other posters that if you like him, he has been honest with you, he hasn't cheated on you, and in general he is a kind person (not just in how he treats you) I don't see why it has to be "meet cute" we forsakes all others day one, fairy tale beginning.  I'm a sucker for romantic movies as much as anyone but I think life is more When Harry Met Sally than Disney Princess story and it's more about the journey and ending than how you began.[/quote]

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