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Reply to "please tell me about living accommodations during separation--"sharing" your home and a rental?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, once you move out, you basically give up custody out of default. Regardless of who wants the divorce, if he keeps the house and kids, how is he going to manage it all being gone 12 hours a day. Tell him if he is going to be the custodial parent, then do a trial for two weeks. He needs to do all the cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping, school shopping, activities (including arranging them), laundry and everything else you do and if that goes smoothly, then you can discuss who should move out. If you have a spare bedroom, move into that or have two of the kids share and you move into theirs. And, during those two weeks, look for a job, any job and then you can get a better job later on. Doing activities at night is very different than doing all the caretaking.[/quote]
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