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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I mean this with all possible kindness. Don't be a pushover and a doormat. If it makes you happy, by all means, be the go-to person when they need a babysitter. But there are limits. I read both threads and your relationship with your brother concerns me. My mother and her siblings have that kind of relationship, where my mother, who is the youngest of 7, is alternatively ignored then ordered about by her siblings when they need a hand. Her whole family has told her she's stupid (not nice, even though she's not as smart as they are). And it spills over to the next generation! For a long time, I was not considered as well as my cousins, until we were all adults and I ended up having less problems :-). There was a lot of jealousy and soul-searching then! So keep your dignity. When you marry and have kids, don't let your kids be treated like secondary citizens. [/quote]
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