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Reply to "please tell me about living accommodations during separation--"sharing" your home and a rental?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Talk to a lawyer ASAP, on your own. You don't have to hire her/him or get nasty or file papers right away or any of that. But you desperately need to understand the legal implications of the decisions you make right now. Which of you moves out of the marital home can affect who gets the home, who gets more money from the home, who gets custody, the amount of child support, etc. You have many rights, even as a SAHM. Yes, you will need to get a job eventually, but you can go about it much more rationally and come out with a much better job and income if you do it right. And you can get really screwed if you do it wrong, and that ultimately hurts the kids in the long run, not just you. I had no clue what the legal situation was when I separated, and talking to a lawyer made the correct path forward towards the long-term best interests of the whole family much clearer.[/quote]
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