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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is my first relationship after a divorce.  He's a mixed bag of really awesome and fun and some issues that would need to be addressed before I could ever agree to anything long term.  Fortunately, if anything, I think I am more into him than he is into me, so this isn't a feeling guilty question.  He'll be really sad but will bounce back more quickly, I think.

I am just wondering how you walk away from that (which I need to do soon) and deal with the hurt of losing the 80% that you really loved.  It sounds like a stupid question, but I still have a lot of grief over my divorce, so I am trying to wrap my head around yet another loss.  I'm not sure - although you tell me - that just focusing on the 20% bad is going to be enough to stop all the hurt.  I am going to miss him.  I would love to know what has helped others deal with this.[/quote]

Did you really thing the first guy you date after a divorce would be the one? Likely not. You have to kiss a lot of frogs sometimes.[/quote]

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