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[quote=Anonymous]OP, don't engage in a conversation with her--meaning, don't ask her if she did it. If she says no, what do you do then? You don't want to be guilted back into using her, right? Then you *should* be making this decision now, before you talk to her. I do think it is smart to give her some $ to tide her over. Two houses = double what you would have given. Call her or text her--now is not the time to chicken out because you are afraid to talk to her; so if you are, just text. Get it done, OP. Then just tell her, look, Larla, don't go to (employer's house) anymore. We loved having you and I've put an envelope in the mail for you (or if you don't have her address) I've got an envelope here for you, and I'm leaving it under my door mat. Thank you for everything. I had to do this, OP, and yep, it's hard, but believe it or not, she still works multiple days at the house across the street from me and we say hi and follow up on our kids. I was worried about that; that I see her constantly--when I get into my car. But I never pinned her down on what she did. She knows she screwed up, even if she denied it, and that's probably why she isn't rude to me.[/quote]
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