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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No.

Married men should not create new friendships with single females.

Cordial, polite surface relationships? Sure.

Friendships with regular contact? No.

Completely inappropriate.[/quote]

I tend to agree, but....

My husband has a colleague at work with whom he works closely. They're friends. She and I are friends. S[b]he babysits our kid[/b]. I don't see harm in it. [/quote]

I'm not sure why it is, but this would bother me.[/quote]

She and I get together once a week. She doesn't get together with my husband outside of work unless we're doing couples things. She's a close friend with no kids and she adores our toddler![/quote]

And that would bother me. Maybe it's because I've heard too many stories of the  "friend" who was "friends" with the wife too that became the OW that I'm suspicious. I'd also not be kay with a single woman who wasn't the nanny, relative, or longtime friend   "adoring" my kid. That too me seems like she's trying to prove her  mothering skills.
I'm probably paranoid.
Don't let my projections  cast shadows on your relationship.[/quote]

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