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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It was my birthday this week.  I received flowers at work from an ex.  I was surprised and embarrassed. I have not kept them in my office and gave them to my secretary.

A couple questions:

1. The ex emailed me asking if I received the flowers and saying he wanted to make me smile.  This is unwanted attention and I want him to go away.  Is it best just to ignore his email?  Should I respond, say thanks, but explain I felt it was not appropriate and ask him not to do it again?

2. Do [b]I have to tell my husband? [/b] He will get jealous and upset and I really don't want to tell him.  I didn't do anything wrong here and don't want to deal with the fallout.  On the other hand, what if he finds out through my secretary (not likely, but possible). [/quote]

1. If it is really unwanted attention then you don't respond at all.

2. Yes. You must tell your husband. If you don't then you have lied to him. If you feel like hiding it then you need to tell him. Its that simple. fess up!

Question for you... was this an ex from BEFORE you were married or was this an extra marital affair?[/quote]

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