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Reply to "I don't necessarily want a divorce, but I do want a break. (Not related to the other thread.)"
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[quote=Anonymous]Is he willing to get into therapy for anger management? His angry explosions are destructive and emotionally abusive to you. They are not your issues to fix. They're his. Unless he owns this, acknowledges it's a problem, and wants to change it, and then starts working on it, there's nothing you can do. A marriage is like a cart pulled by two horses, and if one horse keeps bucking and rampaging, that cart is not going anywhere good, no matter what the other horse does. Even with all the therapy and work, it's tough going. Mine's been in anger management and other therapy for a few years, and while he's doing better, he still has horrible blow ups. He thinks he's managing it, but he's really just learned how to put off the explosions longer. I can never let my guard down. Is this what you want? I wish I'd gotten out years ago.[/quote]
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