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[quote=Anonymous]I have a one month old and had an epic fight with DH at 1am over dishes and cleaning up the kitchen. I had been nursing since we put our 2.5 yo down at 8:30 and then had to pump. I just don't get why he can't clean up the kitchen before a reasonable hour when he has nothing else to do. I had a difficult pregnancy, gave birth and now am in breastfeeding hell (DC isn't transferring well so I'm pumping and feeding the pumped milk but we are so close to being over that hump). Seriously all I ask for in return is a clean kitchen for a couple of hours a day. That's it!

So... That vent aside. We are dealing with this. We are short with each other but then sort of get over it the next day and are good to each other and then the bedtime clean up routine rolls around again and we fight about it. We went through it with our first. I was a bit worried about our marriage. We got over it just fine and were closer than ever. I really try hard not to score keep and not to nag but that can be hard with a laid back DH who would not notice that the house is a complete mess or that our toddler has no milk if I didn't point it out. [/quote]

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