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[quote=Anonymous]I'm the betrayed spouse and DH's affair was sexual, though mostly emotional if that makes sense. I think he was feeling exactly what you are. He lasted 6-8 weeks without contact, then reached out to the other woman again. Because he missed her/was worried about her (a normal human reaction I think) but didn't choose to talk about it to me or in our therapy sessions or to his own therapist. First it was a phone call to make sure she was okay. Then another. Then emails. Off it went. So my advice is to shine as much light as you can on what you're experiencing. If your DH is too hurt right now to hear it (and he may be, it's hard to hear your spouse say they miss the other person), find someone else who will be supportive of you in staying true to your marriage. Read Shirley Glass Just Friends - the walls and windows stuff is a really good basic analogy to guide your choices.[/quote]
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