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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you explicitly and clearly told them the condition of your family joining was not telling your mom, then why aren't you clear with cousins that the consequence of giving your mom the information that you are not going and you aren't paying beyond the initial deposit.  They can pay your portion or they can also forgo their deposits and find another place to go on the holiday.  Bam.  You have your sanity.  The family deals with the natural consequences and you still have money for your needed vacation.[/quote]

Because she doesn't want to punish the others for the jackassery of one person.

OP, that really sucks. I'm sorry your cousin doesn't respect your wishes. What has your mother done in the past and what are you afraid she might do? Have you shown your cousin proof of what your mother has done? Regardless, why did she have to let your mother know the information?  I hope you can piece together some other vacation for your family. Maybe your nice cousins can find friends to take your spot so you can get your money back. [/quote]

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