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[quote=Anonymous]Arrive on the scene 40-50 that's later as a single, unhealthy, mental-illness stricken adult? I would keep distance, be verbally courteous monthly not weekly, and only physically see her outside of holidays/once a year for a short stop in visit. This whole situation has the great propensity to be incredibly one-sided and a burden in you -- UNLESS SHE IS HEALTHY and has a life. She may be the type- and I have a childhood friend like this - sho never got her $hit together and is beyond needy, and will suck you in and take, take, take. This may not be the glorified "reunion with your birth mom" that a few adoptees may have. She may have just gone through so many people she has no social life or anything to add. Holidays are for the parents that tossed your husband, your parents and your and your nuclear family.[/quote]
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