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Reply to "Getting divorced and my family and friends hate my soon to be ex"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Just keep saying "He was a jerk to me, but trashing him doesn't make me feel any better. He's my kid's father, please don't say anything negative about him in front of the kid. That talk only hurts the kid-and frankly, I don't want to hear it either."[/b] If you keep giving them the same response, hopefully they will chill out-although my sympathy to your kid, you, and your family. Cheating spouses hurt many people through their actions, and rarely acknowledge the chaos they cause.[/quote] This. The bolded in particular. I know that your family and friends feel protective of you. Some of them may feel betrayed on their own account, since his actions hurt them too (in the way that their friend/family member was lying and hurting someone they care about). But they need to understand that badmouthing your ex to you is not a good way for them to deal with those feeling. Focusing on your child is helpful.[/quote]
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