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[quote=Anonymous]He said he was bullied already, but I didn't push him on the details because he moved on to another subject before I had a chance. When he comes over, he talks to me a lot, more than his dad. He tells me about being anxious about new people/situations and all about the video games he plays and his favorite You Tubers. He talks about what goes on at his mom's house. Things that happen at school or when he visits his maternal grandma, etc. And then I relay some of this back to my fiance, because some of it is, I think, worrisome.

I am hoping that it's just because it's his son that he gets defensive, and that if it's OUR child, he wouldn't feel like I'm attacking, since it's ours together? If that makes any sense.

But I get the overall point, of him just not wanting to deal with big problems and go about his life as though they don't exist, and I'm gonna be left holding the bag.

He's not over at our house enough for us to make a real difference in his life that I think could help this. We (I) do what we can on the weekends and when she lets us get him during the week. I think it would be good for him to fight custody, but I'm not about to suggest that and open that can of worms that could potentially blow up in his face.[/quote]

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