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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is clear from your language that you dislike your fiance's child.  You should not marry this man.  He should not marry a woman who clearly dislikes his kid; he needs to focus on his child right now.[/quote]

I actually think it is clear that the OP cares about the kid , which is why she is concerned that he will have social issues in middle school.

OP, you are in a rough spot as the stepparent-to-be since it appears the biological parents are in denial about the kids issues. Honestly, to me, it sounds like he may be on the spectrum &, if it were my kid, I'd have him evaluated. You said your fiance's family also seems concerned about his son's behavior. Is there a family member -- one of his parents or siblings, maybe? -- who your fiance might listen to? If so, I would ask him or her to talk to him.[/quote]

All of this!
I don't know how many other children your fiancé is around but this is not typical 11 year old behavior. Unfortunately for you OP your hands are tied. You can do what's been suggested other than that of his bio parents won't help him there is nothing you can do.

I'm surprised the school hasn't had him evaluated.[/quote]

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