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Some of my in-laws have Asperger's, my husband and son have tendencies, and this sounds very similar.

Does your fiance exhibit the symptoms of social awkwardness and lack of empathy? The fact that he is not interpreting his son's symptoms correctly and not taking them seriously speaks volumes about his own lack of perception and social processing.

If this indeed comes from his side of the family, your future children might have symptoms as well. 
And let me tell you from personal experience, it's HARD to live with people like this. You will feel as if your feelings are not taken into account and you will live daily with their rigid thinking and inflexibity.

So before marrying this guy please think long and hard about this. Like all autism spectrum disorders, this is not curable. Adults and older children who are aware of their deficits and highly motivated to change can work with a therapist to learn how to observe and correctly interpret social, verbal, and non-verbal clues, but the later you start, the harder it gets. This 11 year old should be evaluated by a psychologist ASAP.
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This is what I was thinking also. We have a nephew w/Autism/Aspergers (SIL says he was diagnosed with both).  The things that you describe are all things that I could see him doing.  
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